How to Talk to Your Elderly Parents About Driving
One of the most challenging conversations you can have with your senior parents is whether or not they should continue driving. It's so important to discuss the subject, however, since it could put their safety and the safety of others at risk if they’re no longer capable of handling the task. According to the CDC, drivers over the age of 70 have a much higher crash rate than younger individuals, most likely due to age-related health changes, such as vision problems and physical issues.
Tips for A Successful Driving Conversation
Driving represents freedom for older adults, so it’s natural that they would be reluctant to stop the activity. At this point, your parents have likely given up many meaningful things, including their career and possibly their own home. Driving is one of the last connections they have to be an independent adult, so it’s essential to handle the conversation carefully. Here are a few suggestions for approaching the chat with sensitivity.
Gather Information
Maybe you’ve noticed that your parent is struggling to see while driving or that they’re going far under the speed limit. Perhaps they’ve even been involved in a traffic accident. Whatever the case is, be prepared with a list of your explicit worries before talking to them. The National Highway Traffic Administration has resources for determining whether your aging parent needs to alter their driving habits or stop driving altogether.
Get Support
Talk to your siblings and other close family members, and present a united front to your parent. They’ll typically respond better if multiple people show the same viewpoint.
Have Compassion
Remember that they are adults once you’re ready to start the conversation. Talking down to them will get you nowhere. Empathy and compassion for their situation are much better approaches and will get more positive results. Make it clear to Mom or Dad that you want to work with them to make their mode of transportation more accessible and safer.
Explain Alternatives
If you’ve determined that your parent can no longer drive, they’ll naturally have concerns about getting from place to place. It’s important that they know you want to help them find alternative transportation methods, whether that’s rides from you, a caregiver, or another trusted friend or family member. In Rockford, Lifescape Community Services offers transportation services to medical appointments, grocery shopping, community events, and more.
Seniors Can Stay on The Move with Visiting Angels
Navigating the conversation about a loved one's driving capabilities can be challenging, filled with concerns for their safety and well-being. Now, with a foundation of understanding and practical guidance, you can gently guide your loved ones toward a decision that prioritizes their safety while preserving their autonomy.
At Visiting Angels Rockford, we understand that seniors want to remain living independently for as long as possible. One of the most significant factors in staying self-sufficient is having reliable transportation. Our friendly caregivers are happy to drive your senior loved one to activities, checkups, errands, and more.
To learn about in-home care services with Visiting Angels Rockford, please reach out today via our contact form or call us at 815-977-3452.