Memory disorders can be deeply embarrassing for those who suffer from them. No one likes to feel a step behind – especially not when it comes to one’s memory and mental alertness. Because of this, many seniors hide signs of dementia from their loved ones and even their professional elder care providers. This makes it tough for family members and other caregivers to detect Alzheimer’s and other memory disorders. It can also make it difficult to start a conversation about care without angering or hurting your loved one’s feelings.
“Our elder care providers have heard countless stories from our clients about how difficult that first conversation can be,” says Larry Meigs, CEO and President of Visiting Angels. “When it comes to dementia, a person’s pride can feel threatened. Many times, it’s only when a kind and compassionate family member spots the signs of dementia that a dementia-sufferer starts receiving the support and care they need.”
If you suspect your love one may be starting to suffer from Alzheimer’s or another memory disorder, but fear he or she is trying to hide their condition, you can keep an eye out for these signs of dementia.
If your loved one is presenting some of these signs of dementia, it may be wise to have a talk with them about your concerns. This is an extremely sensitive subject – there’s a reason so many seniors hide their initial symptoms. So when approaching your loved one, do so in a compassion, gentle, non-judgmental way. Remember that it may take several attempts to have the conversation.
Families facing early-stage dementia and Alzheimer’s often turn to Visiting Angels for help keeping a loved one in the comfort of their home for longer. Contact your local Visiting Angels office today to find out how our elder care providers can help you and your family.
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