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Moving: What to Know in Schererville, IN

Visiting Angels is available to help seniors in Schererville, IN, and the surrounding areas.

The idea of transferring an older loved one can be rather intimidating because it involves packing up a lifetime's worth of memories and belongings. When you factor in a diagnosis of dementia or another terminal illness, a history of conflict in your relationship, or the recent death of a spouse, your decision-making process becomes much more challenging. Even so, there are situations when relocating is required in order to better provide the attention, assistance, and presence an elderly loved one needs.

Keep these things in mind as you consider the benefits and drawbacks of moving, whether across town or across the country:

More Than a Change of Address: Moving

Many caregivers are unaware of the emotional toll that moving can have. There is stress associated with packing, organizing logistics, selling a home, and other tasks, but there is also the emotional upheaval brought on by the idea of leaving one's habit, comfort zone, and home of many years. It won't be simple to leave behind friends, neighbors, and everything familiar, even if a parent or senior loved one hasn't been able to care for the house or participate in the neighborhood for a time. They're saying goodbye to their favorite eateries, shops, or a mailman they've known for years. Long-distance travelers can be relocating from medical professionals who are familiar with their complex medical histories and care requirements. They won't see the gorgeous lake view from their bedroom window or the kids playing in the yard of their neighbor next door.

When you consider how much simpler it will be to take care of Mom when she lives downstairs or down the street, keep in mind all that Mom is leaving behind. Starting any discussion about a future shift from this point of empathy and understanding is probably going to be more well-received.

It Takes a Team to Move.

Again, it's crucial to involve your elderly loved one in the process in addition to the physical labor required for packing, unpacking, downsizing, and streamlining. Inquire about their preferences for a location to call home and what they liked best about the place they are leaving.

Would it be better for Dad to preserve his independence in a modest apartment close to you rather than being moved into the basement apartment of your home? Think about factors including proximity and the effect on your relationship. Make sure you both have a private area in the house for times when you need space if you and your parent are moving in together after a period of poor ties.

You can all benefit from intergenerational relationships if your children or grandchildren are still living in or frequently visiting your house. However, you'll also need to get ready for the adjustment of having a new resident and the new dynamic.

Moving Is a Continuous Process

It takes time to move. You move, unpack, and settle after packing.

These are just the actual physical tasks; unpacking and settling take time. It takes time to become used to a new schedule and location. Having your mother-in-law relocate to your time zone will be a significant shift if she previously resided in a different time zone and you only spoke on the phone once or twice per month. It won't happen overnight to make new friends, and you might need to help people connect on a social level. You'll need to look for new healthcare professionals. This can take some time as well, especially if you're determined to discover the best match. Be gentle with yourself and your loved one while these changes occur. Sometimes you may need to encourage your loved one to find friends or a pastime, and other times you may need to take a step back.

Your senior loved one can meet new individuals in a new community or establish new acquaintances through social media. To learn more about the advantages of getting an elderly loved one on social media, click here.

Relocation Changes a Person

Moving is stressful by nature and may bring out the worst in people. However, it can also provide you a chance to, at this new stage of your lives, engage with a parent or elder relative in new ways. Nevertheless, the relocation will alter your lives as a couple. Your own life and household dynamics and daily routine will change as a result of the older adult you are "uprooting." In this new phase of your relationship, be ready for potential power struggles or conflict, but also be open to unexpected joy.

Start constructing your home right away.

You could believe that by bringing your loved one closer, you'll be able to provide care for them on your own. And while that might be true initially, you should start building your caregiving village as soon as possible. In fact, setting up as much of that support network before the move as possible is best because it will take your mind off the stress of moving and settling.

As you prepare to move, start looking into and corresponding with regional home care agencies. Find out what services they provide and how they might be able to accommodate your loved one's particular demands and circumstances. Consider beginning services as soon as your parent or senior relative arrives, even if it's just for a few hours a week, to build a rapport with the organization and form a relationship with a trained caregiver. If you discover that your loved one needs more or less care than you planned while they are there, you can make the necessary adjustments. When the time comes, though, getting started sooner will make the move to home care easier.

To learn more about companion care and how it might be exactly what your elderly loved one needs in their new environment, click below.

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Serving Schererville, Crown Point, Valparaiso, Munster, Dyer, and the Surrounding Area

Visiting Angels SCHERERVILLE, INDIANA
2340 Cline Ave
Schererville, IN 46375
Phone: 219-500-5896
Fax: 219-322-6144

Serving Schererville, Crown Point, Valparaiso, Munster, Dyer, and the Surrounding Area

Visiting Angels SCHERERVILLE, INDIANA
2340 Cline Ave
Schererville, IN 46375
Phone: 219-500-5896
Fax: 219-322-6144
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