Caregivers and Codependency At Home Care in St. Charles, MO

At Home Care in St. Charles

Codependent situations are often characterized as unhealthy scenarios involving two people, who both feel as if they “need” to remain in the situation to survive. If you believe that your loved one may be exhibiting signs of codependency, it may be time to bring in an at home care professional. Our caregivers provide the necessary at home care service that your loved one needs, while also teaching you how to properly provide care along the way.

In order to identify a codependent situation, it is best to first properly define what the situation might look like. Co-Dependents Anonymous, Inc. offers the following definition: “Codependency is a tendency to behave in ways that negatively impact one’s relationship and quality of life. This behavior may be characterized by denial, low self-esteem, compliance or control patterns.

The following patterns are typical in a codependent situation.

Denial Patterns

Minimization of the feelings of others
Difficulty identifying feelings
Feelings of unselfishness

Low Self-Esteem Patterns

Caring more about how others perceive you
Inability to receive praise or compliments
Indecisiveness
Inferiority complex

Compliance Patterns

Compromising values
Anxiety about expressing opinions
Failing to leave negative situations

Control Patterns

Persuading others that you are needed in their lives
Showing resentment if care is denied
Convincing others to share your beliefs
Giving direction or advice unsolicited

(Patterns and Characteristics of Codependence, Co-Dependents Anonymous, Inc., www.CoDA.org)

Balance is key to avoiding codependency and action must be taken if codependency appears to become a problem. If you believe that your loved one is in a codependent situation, it is likely in their best interest for you to intervene.

Please do not hesitate to call our office if you believe that your loved one in the Greater St. Charles area could benefit from professional at home care services.