How to stop worrying about your aging parents
The worry seems worse at night. Is there something dad is not telling you? Is mom editing the story because she does not want to worry you? Is dad safe to drive? How did mom get that bruise? Is she losing weight? He says he’s fine, but those frozen dinners don’t seem very filling, and the sodium count seems too high to be suitable for his medication. What if mom falls again?
You are routinely trying to read between the lines and asking probing questions to ensure that your parents are OK. But you worry about their safety, health, happiness, and wellness. It would be so much easier if they would spare your feelings and be straight with you. But they won’t. They have been taking care of you for years, and they don’t want to worry you now. Also, they may not understand the reality of what they are managing. It may be hard for them to report on limitations that are new, scary and unfamiliar.
Managing care for seniors is physically and emotionally complex, especially when they are your parents. Visiting Angels of Knoxville can help. We have years of experience and assist our clients wherever they are most comfortable, whether in their own home or a care facility.
Inviting a professional into the situation can help to stabilize it. Your parents probably don’t want you to be up all night tossing and turning. Let them into your concerns and work together to make the situation safe and healthy. Here’s how Visiting Angels of Knoxville can help.
Compassionate caregivers
Visiting Angels of Knoxville Caregivers help our clients with a spectrum of needs by offering an array of services. From clients who need a Social Visit to those who require Dementia Care and also clients who need assistance in the Final Stages of Life, Visiting Angels of Knoxville offers customized services to address each of our clients’ specific needs.
You and your family have the chance to meet with our caregivers and decide which professional will best serves your family’s needs. Our caregivers are non-medical. Their focus is helping our clients live safe, comfortable, healthy lives at home or in a care facility. They can also help our clients who are recovering from a hospital stay or experiencing a chronic illness.
These are some ways we assist:
- Light housekeeping and laundry
- Providing transportation to medical appointments
- Providing companionship
- Running errands
- Cooking and grocery shopping
- Assisting with grooming, hygiene, and restroom assistance
- Offering medication reminders
A professional framework for care
Visiting Angels of Knoxville Caregivers can help to put a family at ease because they lend a sense of order and professionalism to the situation. They monitor our clients, and if there is a notable change, they will be in touch with our office, which will alert the client’s family. Family members who are caring for their loved ones from long distances can rest assured that we will keep you informed of any updates and check in with you regularly about your loved one’s care. This way, you do not have to feel like you need to ask those probing questions and worry that you can’t fully trust the answers you’re getting in return.
We also have a program that helps identify fall or trip hazards in the home. You can rest assured that your loved one’s environment is safe and secure.
Supporting family caregivers
Sometimes, one family member is caring for another. While this can be a positive setup, it requires support. Visiting Angels of Knoxville offers Respite Care to help give that family member a break from the demands of the caregiver role. It is generous to provide care to a family. But when that is the arrangement, it is essential to build a means for also supporting for that family caregiver to avoid burnout, especially when that caregiver is also a senior.
Don’t worry; problem-solve
Try not to worry about your aging parents. Come up with solutions that work for your family. Visiting Angels of Knoxville has your back every step of the way. Contact us and let us work together. We have solutions that will make life healthier and less worrisome for your entire family.